she's getting ready

to wean. I just put Harper to bed w/o nursing. I'm not ready for this........... I was planning to start cutting out feeds here and there when she turned 13 months old and to keep the bedtime feed until 18 months. I didn't have the heart to start cutting out feeds at 13 months and decided to just follow her lead instead. Sometimes she only nurses 3 times a day, sometimes it's 5. Tonight she was more interested in playing and biting (ouch!). So now she's in bed talking to herself, and I'm cry eyes out. Why do they have to grow up so fast?!